Sunday, January 24, 2010

He is Ours

All day long, I was asking myself wrenching questions like, "What if he rejects me?" If I remember correctly, that's a pretty normal thought process. We arrived in Nanchang, which means 'Hero', at approximately 3:30pm. Our guide, Lisa, told us that we should come up to the meeting room on the 20th floor at 4:30. For the hour in between, we were busy unpacking, trying to get the computer going, packing our diaper bag, assembling gifts, anything to keep busy!

Lisa called us at 4:15 to say he had arrived and we should come up. And so the nerves set in. We went upstairs to hear lots of crying. Fortunately for us, it was the twin girls in our group. We walked in the room and laid eyes on him approaching very cautiously. He was being held by the orphanage Director. We spoke to him a little bit and then she held him out to me. Initially, it seemed he was frightened. Tears streamed down his little face. I reassured him that everything would be okay. And he held on tight. We now have a Momma's boy on our hands. The poor little guy was burning up. They told us he had a cough, but when I put my lips to his forehead it was evident he had a fever. We brought him back to the room, and I continued to hold him and talk to him. The guys went to find a straw for him, since his update indicated he likes straws and he wasn't keen on his sippy cup. That allowed us some alone time to bond. His Chinese nickname is Wei Feng, so we will call him that until he's a little more comfortable.

Jimmy ordered some room service, which Daniel refused to eat. Everytime I offered it to him, he would turn away as if to say, "No thankyou, I'm not staying!" Bless his little heart. It's been a tough day for him. He's now sound asleep in our bed. We will sleep with him tonight. we are concerned about his fever and his cold, so we feel it's best to keep him close.

Let the bonding begin...

9 comments:

Sammy Pajammy said...

Congratulations!!! Our love to all of you!! Blessings, W,E,S

Anonymous said...

Alright!!! So Wonderful!!! Congrats Mommy and hope Daniel will get better soon.. Just give him all your Mommy Magic and Love!!
Nicki

Carmen said...

Sounds like a beautiful gotcha day except for the fever. Although sickness is good for bonding, I pray he gets better soon.

Remember to give him lots of liquids. See if you can find something like gatorade for his electrolytes. I am sure you know all this stuff but I know how overwhelming the experience is and I was happy to have people remind me of things like this.

Can't wait to see pictures of the little guy.

Hugs to the Murphys, now a family of FOUR !!

Carrie said...

Oh Lisa,
So nice to be able to read all that is happening..I feel like we are right there with you. I am so happy you finally have him in your arms.
All our best...Carrie

Ana said...

Oh congratulations! Sending lots of love and positive energy your way. Hope Daniel starts to feel better soon. Stay warm and healthy. 3Ds

Anonymous said...

LOVE that you can keep us in the loop! Uncle Kathy had tears in her eyes this morning...I can barely take it! You know me! Find him some Smartwater!!!

Love from Kels and I!!!

michelle said...

Oh we are so happy to hear that Daniel is with you! My heart is soaring for you!! I hope Daniel feels better soon...with Mommy and Daddy's love, he's well on his way. We are sending much love across the miles and can't wait to see pictures. And much love to big sister Madi!!
love, Michelle, Dave and Kayla

Michelle said...

Oh we are so happy to hear that you have been united with Daniel! My heart is soaring for you. We hope that he starts feeling better very soon...with Mommy and Daddy's love, he is well on his way to healing. We are sending much love across the miles, and to big sister Madi, whose letters are such a reflection of the beautiful young lady she is. All our best!
love, Michelle, Dave and Kayla

Sunny said...

Lisa & Jimmy,

Yay, you've got your little precious boy :o) This has got to be such a wonderful feeling for you! Poor baby being sick but looks like you get to mommy him right off the bat! He's so blessed to have you both there to take care of him. What a wonderful life he has to look forward to.

Thanks for the updates on Wei Feng :o)